Alan, my
best friend, is leaving tomorrow,
again.So here's a dedication post to him :)
I decided to use just a few pics cus I cant finish if I have to use all! Haha.
We got into a clique with Ashley, JunRui and ZhanWen at the end of Sec1.
In Sec2, you drifted away cus you didnt feel like a part of us anymore.
But thank God.......... we became best friends in mid Sec2.
No clique, no nothing, just the two of us :)
Many obstacles came in between us, trying to break our friendship apart.
We had SOOO MANNNYYY quarrels. So many that I've lost count!
One of the major ones happened in Sec2, when we quarrelled over Talent Time.
We didnt speak for the longest time then, and even badmouthed abt one another.
But im glad we realised that our friendship was still more important than a stupid talent time.
& so, best friends again :)
Then in Sec3, we got into different classes.
We formed new cliques. You had yours, and I had mine.
We drifted apart..............
Until the day you told me you were leaving for UK to further your studies.
It was there and then, that I finally realised how important you were to me.
I didnt cherish you when you were in Singapore.
We enjoyed each other's company so much, yet we were always quarrelling over stupid stuff.
I cant believe we even let a stupid quarrel get to our heads and badmouth abt each other.
I cant believe we drifted apart just cus we made new friends in Sec3.
I was at a loss. I was devastated. I didnt want you to leave.
Cus you were going to UK for 4 whole years. 4....... whole years.
But there was nothing I could do to change the fact.
We cherished all the time we had left and went out together as often as possible.
Not to mention, best friends once again.
To be honest, I thought we would just break contact when you left.
I mean its 4 years abroad, I thought, "Is our friendship really that strong?"
The day finally came.
I wished you all the best. Sent you off at the airport. Hugged. Teared.
Luckily, your leaving brought us closer instead.
We emailed each other when you were in UK & hang out whenever you came back to Singapore.
Even though we hang out in Singapore, we didnt want to forget each other when you returned back to UK.
So we made a friendship ring with our names carved in each ring.
We promised to keep the ring with us & that the ring represented our friendship when we were not together.
With the ring, it was an assurance of our friendship, and it made us think & remember one another every time we look at the ring.
But noooooo. In Sec4, we had our second major quarrel.
It was smth abt your parents disliking me and we said some really harsh words to each other.
We even said, 'best friends no more'
We stopped talking for the whole holiday you were here.
But somehow, we just needed each other in our lives :)
BESTFRIENDS, AGAIN! HAHAHA.
& We've not quarrelled since. 1 year/2 years without quarrelling till today?
Seems like a miracle huh :)
It has been almost 3 years since you left for UK.
We're still best friends.
I admit, our friendship isnt an easy one.
I cant even imagine anyone quarrelling sooooo much and still being able to be best friends.
I bet people think we're crazy hahaha.
However, im proud of our friendship!
How many people can say,
"I QUARRELLED SO MUCH W MY BESTF, DRIFTED APART FROM HIM SO MANY TIMES, BUT WE'RE STILL BEST FRIENDS TODAY.'
Despite all the obstacles we've been through, we're still best friends. Thats the main point.
Many people would have already stopped being best friends and just stick to being normal friends or even strangers with such obstacles.
But no, we're just meant to be best friends.
Nothing can break us apart :)
(I think its how weird we are that we are best friends HAHAHA. Not only do we quarrel and become bestf again and again, we do all kinds of weird stuff tgt!
Gmax, salmon sashimi tradition, laksa tradition etc!)
You still have 1+ more year in UK till you finish up your 4 year course there.
But recently you told me you'd be continueing your university education there.
Which means....... its not just 4 years, you'd be there for another 4 years, or more.
& So we started to discuss the possibility of us going to the same university or at least, be in the same country.
But we realised that, even if I do get the privilege to go to UK for uni, you'd be in army for 2 years here.
We'd still be separated.
By the time you go back to UK, I'd be graduating soon (if my course is 3/4 years)
So we just stopped talking abt it. Wish for the best. & see how it goes.
Anyway, no matter what happens, we'll still be best friends :D
This silly boy even suggested getting a tattoo together! Haha.
But anyway, as much as we hope to enter the same uni/be in UK together,
We cant predict the future.
But one thing we know, Distance cant destroy our friendship.
So we'll always be best friends :D
Wanna see the best friends today?
♥
& There you go.
Best friends. Up till today & still counting :D
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Alan, just so you know, ive been going around telling both my friends and parents how well you scored for O levels!
Also, I've been close to alot of ppl and yet drifted apart frm so many of them as well.
Youre the only one who has not left me right from the start.
That's the very reason why I cherish you so much as well.
So just to let you know, im really proud to have you as a best friend :)
Please study hard (A levels yknw!!!) and take care (as usual) in UK.
Im sure youre gna do realllyyy well for your A levels.
Please dont turn more ahbeng/gangsterish there as well hahahaha.
You may always swear at me and whack me (not gentlemen tsk!!!) but I'll always love you (so corny hahaha) heh :D
Best friends for LIFE, hopefully!!!!!!!!!! ♥
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